- In India, pregnancy is usually views as a normal physiologic phenomenon that does not require any intervention by health care professionals. Only in the event of a problem will pregnant women seek medical advice.
- Many Indian women believe they have little or no control over their pregnancies or outcomes.
- Some women believe that excessive eating during pregnancy may lead to a large fetus or difficult labor.
- There are no restrictions applied to physical activity during pregnancy.
- Some women prefer lying on a bed during delivery, while others prefer to squat.
- Some women may be required to follow a diet of puffed rice, hot water and tea for the first three days after delivery.
- The consumption of milk, butter, ghee and some fish is encouraged in the belief that these foods will increase the quality and quantity of breastmilk.
- Infants are usually placed in the maternal bed, and infant and mother stay together for up to 40 days.
- Breastfeeding is universal and prolonged.
- Infants are usually fed when they cry at any time during day or night.
My Experience...
- I was encouraged by my OBGYN to receive ultrasounds and routine check-ups throughout my pregnancy.
- On a spiritual level, I suppose I believed anything could come from my pregnancy whether I hoped to control the outcome or not. However, I did feel very solid in the belief that giving birth in my hospital would be the safest environment imaginable.
- I was so sick for the first 4 months of pregnancy that I honestly couldn't keep a drop of food down. I remember telling my midwife that all I was eating was half a smoothie a day and still throwing up, and her response was that fruit has a lot of sugar and that was probably causing me to be overweight... No comment...
- I was encouraged to do physical activity during pregnancy. I was so sick it took a lot of energy to get up the nerve to even walk, but when I did I felt a lot better. I also tried pregnancy yoga and that was nice. I do remember the doctors saying not to lift a certain amount of weight during the third trimester.
- Anything other than lying in a bed is considered "alternative" in the US. You need to be in a certain facility with certain nurses and midwives if you wish for a water birth or sitting birth, etc.
- I wasn't told any restrictions in regards to food after birth. The hospital presented me with lobster and chocolate cake.
- The standard doctor advocates for a baby to sleep in a separate crib as soon as they're born.
- Formula is very popular in the US. Many moms opt to never even try breastfeeding. I really wanted to breastfeed. I found it difficult and frustrating, and the little help I received ended as soon as I left the hospital. I felt very alone and disempowered.
- Mainstream US practice is to put infants on a feeding schedule and to view crying as something "that will pass" as the infant gets used to structure.
I love that modern medicine is able to save lives in the event of an emergency. I wish breastfeeding was more supported in the US, I wish doctors encouraged parents to feed a child whenever the child wanted, I wish there was more information provided to uninformed parents about different birthing practices, I wish there wasn't such a fear of infants at least sleeping in the same room as the parents, I wish the doctors cared to help me with my sickness and provide advice on helpful foods instead of prescribing medications.
I just wish it was more about the beautiful baby and family over the medical procedure and protocol...
http://www.health.qld.gov.au/multicultural/health_workers/indian-preg-prof.pdf
I enjoyed reading your blog this week. It saddened me to hear you weren't given the necessary attention and assistance during your pregnancy when you felt ill. I do agree with you in that many women are turned off to breastfeeding. I know everyone carries there own opinions, however, believe breast feeding is beneficial to the babies health. The milk provides nutrients your baby needs in order to fight off diseases while also giving them vitamins and minerals necessary for healthy growth.
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